Sunday, July 19, 2009

Decisions, Decisions: Vaccines and Homeschooling

Well, I've had it on the radar to get caught up on photos and thoughts on here... and it hasn't happened yet. But I've had a few requests to write more about what we've decided regarding homeschooling and vaccines, so I'm going for it. I'll have to catch up on the other stuff later.

With regard to vaccines, our basic approach is to do most but not all of them and to do them in a bit of a different order than the normal pediatrician's routine. There are a couple of things that we've considered when approaching this issue:

1) We would prefer not to inject certain ingredients into our children, including cells from the remains of aborted fetuses, animal cells, and large amounts of metals and chemicals that can be harmful.
2) We would like for our children to have an opportunity to let their immune systems work for them when it's not necessarily a huge big deal for them to go through an illness.
3) We want to take care to consider the public health risk involved with NOT choosing certain vaccines, not only for us but for others who are higher risk in the community around us.

Based on these things, we've had to do a good deal of research. One of the most helpful resources we've used is The Vaccine Book by Dr. Robert Sears. It's fairly well-balanced and is easy to read, offering a host of additional resources for further research. After a bunch of research over the course of the last couple years, I think we've come up with a plan that leaves us feeling mostly comfortable.

We are planning to use Dr. Sears' adapted list of vaccines as a starting place (the one in his book that still gives the kids all their vaccines but adjusts the schedule of vaccines so as to avoid many harmful side effects). For example, he suggests waiting on the Hep B series (which starts in the hospital at birth for a baby) until age 2 1/2 UNLESS the mother, father or other close family member is a Hep B carrier. He never schedules more than two vaccines at a time, because the normal routine of sometimes four to six vaccines in combination is a whole lot for a kid's system to handle. And he delays some other things until later.

Using this adapted schedule as a base, we will take out the chicken pox vaccine for sure because it was developed from a cell line extracted from an aborted human fetus... and because we don't mind if our kids actually get chicken pox as kids and develop lifelong immunity that way. We will also almost certainly not give any girl we have the HPV vaccine for a variety of reasons.

I struggled with the MMR vaccine because the rubella strain used to manufacture the vaccine was taken from an aborted human fetus (they basically just keep using this cell line as it reproduces in a petri dish somewhere). There are also more chemicals in the vaccine than many others, and there is a long list of side effects. The main public health issue in our area is rubella in that it can cause some major birth defects if a pregnant woman is infected with the virus. While I'm rubella-immune (they do a test when you're pregnant to let you know), there are many people around who are not. In the end, we made a very difficult decision and determined that we'd give the kids the MMR vaccine, reasoning that it is definitely bothersome that the rubella component comes from an aborted fetus which is ridiculously awful but that it would seem even worse if one of our kids was a rubella carrier, passed it on to a pregnant woman, and caused some major birth defects or death to a baby who still has a chance to live. Not easy. I'm praying that the drug manufacturers will find another way to make this vaccine, that's for sure.

One great thing about The Vaccine Book is that Dr. Sears outlines the ingredient list in each vaccine produced by each drug company. For example, if there are two manufacturers of the same vaccine, one might produce the vaccine with animal products and the other might not. One might use more aluminum or formaldehyde than the other. You can know what you want and ask your pediatrician to order the one that is better for your child. This can be VERY helpful information.

So that's the short end of the vaccine discussion.

With regard to homeschooling, first of all, we've decided to go for it! After earning my degree in education and being trained to teach kids according to the "traditional" or "progressive" methods (the most common approaches in most public schools and MANY private schools), I wasn't completely satisfied with the way kids were being taught. After some extra research and investigation over the course of the last 8 years, I've become pretty committed to providing my kids with a classical education if at all possible. Please stop for a second and read the information at the link I provided if you don't know anything about classical education. The end result of classical education is that students can typically think more clearly and critically in a more organized fashion and have better tools for problem-solving later in life than students who are taught according to the methods used in most schools in modern America. In a public school, there may be honors courses designed around a classical model, but they are often still so disconnected from other subjects that the experience of these students is very different from those receiving a completely classical education.

That said, the classical model of education seems to stand out as the way to go. There are no classical schools in our area, so that wasn't even an option. So homeschooling, here we come! After a bunch of research and a lot of talking to more experienced homeschooling parents, we decided on the following curricula for Ladan's kindergarten year:

1) Veritas Press Phonics Museum. Since Ladan already knows how to read, we're doing the K-1 Combo Kit, speeding through the parts of the kindergarten portion that he knows but making sure to stop and work on the things that he hasn't mastered from that portion of the curriculum. And then we'll see how much of the Grade 1 curriculum he gets through by the end of the year. Maybe all of it, maybe not. It's GREAT because it includes a ton of history, art history, and art appreciation right in the content of the reading/handwriting lessons. For example, the letter flashcards show the capital letter, lowercase letter, and a piece of classic artwork to depict something that starts with the letter (i.e. a classic painting of apples for the letter "Aa"). So you get to talk about the piece of art, the time period, the style of art, and the artist if you want... and if you don't do all of that in detail, at least they're being exposed to great art while learning letters.

2) Saxon Math (Grade 1). Apparently, Saxon Math curriculum is designed so that most kids can typically start at a grade level above their official grade level if there are no issues requiring remedial help. I really like the way this curriculum is laid out. It's very easy to get organized and seems like it will be very easy to follow. And there are lots of fun activities using manipulatives that make it VERY exciting for Ladan. He has been asking for weeks when we can do a "real" math lesson!

3) Bible. We'll work through the Catechism and Scripture Memory Program that Ladan started at Clifton Baptist Church when we were still in Louisville (we're using this with our Redeemer Church kids here in Illinois as well), Chet will do some Bible lessons with him, and he'll probably help Ladan start creating a Bible timeline of sorts.

4) Science. We'll do just a few fun, totally random science experiments throughout the school year. For example, right now we're growing butterflies from caterpillars here in our home. We're observing the changes each day and recording them in a science journal. We'll also try to incorporate a few fun field trips throughout the year. Nothing too formal at all this year. We'll add more next year.

So that's the plan. We're not required in our state to school our kids until they're 7 years old, which means that I'm not required to abide by any rules regarding minimum number of days, etc. However, I've decided just to go ahead and do school for the full 176 days that will be required in the future. That way we can all practice getting into a routine while we're only doing a few subjects instead of waiting until we're doing 6 or more subjects and trying to go to school longer all at once.

Chet and I sat down over coffee a couple days ago and reviewed the school calendar I had roughly developed. We determined that we'll start school August 31 with just Bible and math. I'll still be fairly drugged and exhausted after my c-section by that point, but the math curriculum is so well laid out that Chet and I will work on it together with Ladan. That way, if there's ever a time during the school year when I'm struggling to get everything done or if another one of our kids needs more care, Chet will have been introduced to the math curriculum and can teach Ladan his lesson. I'm planning to take over math completely and add in the Phonics Museum curriculum starting September 7 or 8 if possible. This schedule should provide room in the school year for a couple of breaks and still allow us to finish our 176 school days somewhere around the beginning or middle of June.

Until we start the reading curriculum, I'll have Ladan read me a new book at least every other day to keep developing his skills. By the way, he's read at least eight books all by himself to date: The Foot Book, Green Eggs and Ham, Go, Dog. Go!, a few of the readers from his Phonics Museum set, and a couple others that I can't think of off-hand. Thankfully, he has a reading log, so I don't have to remember them all! :) We record the date he read the book, the title, the author, and his favorite part about the book. It's fun to hear what he says is his favorite part! He said his favorite part of Green Eggs and Ham was that "the guy thought he didn't like green eggs and ham, but then he tried something new, and he DID like it!" This has been very helpful for Ladan to consider as he's been asked to try some new things at meals lately. He sometimes thinks he's not going to like something, tries it, determines that he DOES like it... and then lets me know that he ALSO likes green eggs and ham. Who knows about that last part, but at least he's enjoying his reading and finding that it helps him in everyday life!

Hopefully that helps lay out the basics regarding why we're doing what we're doing in at least two areas of life. If anyone has additional ideas, please let us know.

9 comments:

Bld424 said...

I have some additional ideas for science, although they ARE from MU and we both know that isn't the classical method! But, I've taken a few EC classes and beginning elem science methods classes from Fellows and I learned so much from Dr.Hanuscin.

Primariliy, that parents/teachers foster curiousity. Observing is cool. Def. do that. But don't interject your observations if at all possible. Use a line of questioning similar to: What do you notice about that caterpillar? Gosh, I wonder why that happens. What ideas do you have about why? Can you draw a picture to explain what you think will happen next? What makes you think that (evidence based explanation)? (then review predictions, revise thoughts) What else do you notice? What patterns can we see with this? Does this remind you of anything else in the world? What if we were to do this... what do you think would happen (put in two or three caterpillars, change the temperature, put them in a box, give them extra food, etc) Why?

A lot of science education I have seen demonstrated to home school kids has focused on memorization, adults telling or showing, or done only by reading. I think really looking at the natural world and emphasizing a kid's innate sense of wonder and questions is so much better than simply reading "Very Hungry Caterpillar" or a little basal with a science article.

I'd been wondering your opinion about Dr. Sears, and I also wonder if you will share if you have doctors who object or react to your choices in some other way than positve.

Phyllis said...

Hey, Bethany! Thanks for the thoughts on the science stuff.

With regard to Dr. Sears, The Vaccine book is the only thing I've read by him or any of the Sears group. I do know that I'm not necessarily a big fan of going to the extreme with any form of attachment parenting. I'm sure there are some helpful hints in their parenting books, but I honestly haven't read them to know what I'd take and what I'd leave.

And regarding our experiences with doctors, we did have to switch doctors in Louisville because their practice was going to require that we give the chicken pox vaccine to our kids by age 6. But we quickly found another practice in town that would allow us to make those decisions and just offered their encouragement one way or another. The key is interviewing your doctor beforehand and realizing that there is as wide a spectrum of opinions among doctors as there is among parents. Remember that you are hiring your doctor to care for your kids. With this in mind, it's good to choose carefully at the outset a doctor who is likeminded so that you can trust his/her recommendations in the future without having to question every little thing all the time.

Our second pediatrician in Louisville was much more aware and concerned about using complimentary medical approaches. Basically, she offered a bunch of suggestions regarding diet, nutritional supplements, home remedies... and THEN would prescribe something if that stuff didn't work first.

Most doctors are required to offer and even suggest most or all of the vaccines. However, none of the doctors we've interviewed well so far has ended up arguing with our alternative schedule, and they haven't made us feel badly for deciding against a particular vaccine at any point.

Christopher Engelsma said...

What catechism do you use?

MarcyMuser said...

Sounds like you're making some wonderful, wise decisions. I've been homeschooling my two daughters since the older one was 3 1/2, and I've never regretted it.

Judging by a couple of references in your post, I'm wondering if you live in CO. If you do, I have a couple of thoughts that might be useful to you (I've been homeschooling in CO for 9 years). You can send me an email at homemarcy@msn.com. :) Or you can check out my blog, with lots of homeschooling info.

Best wishes!

Bld424 said...

Great to know! I've been reading "The Vaccine Book" and had some mixed opinions because of the other things they've written. I don't think you need to read the other books. Seriously.

Did you feel the same way about vaccines when your first son was a newborn, or are you just finalizing things now with the newest baby?

Also, do you feel you'd be as confident with homeschool if you'd not been an education major or teacher? I know I wouldn't consider it if I weren't certified 1-12 right now.

Phyllis said...

Chris--While my husband was in seminary in Louisville, we went to Clifton Baptist Church. Clifton developed A Catechism & Scripture Memory Program for Children, which is the one we use. I bet you could contact them at info@cliftonbaptist.org and ask if they can send you an electronic or paper copy if you're interested. I'm not exactly sure how they're handling all that, but it would be worth asking if you'd like to check it out.

Marcy--We actually live in IL, but I'll be sure to check out your blog for helpful hints along the way. Thanks!

Bethany--Based on other research I've done, The Vaccine Book takes a very balanced approach for sure. Since it's a medical book, it's in a very different category than the parenting strategy books the Sears group writes... so I don't know that I even drew any real connection to other things they've written. I've read bits and pieces of their other stuff but haven't felt compelled to study or even purchase them as resources. The Vaccine Book, however, is not only on my shelf, but it's all marked up, and I refer to it regularly.

I was concerned about the vaccine issues when our oldest was born, but I didn't have a whole lot of research underway to make informed decisions... so we went ahead with the normal schedule for the first couple years while I did a bunch of research. After that, we delayed several and have passed on his chicken pox booster. We'll make significant changes for the youngers.

With regard to homeschooling--If you had asked me that 10 years ago, even while I was an education major, I would have told you that I'd never feel prepared to homeschool. However, I feel like the variety and accessibility of curriculum resources available today and the opportunity I've had to ask loads of questions have helped encourage me more than anything. Even while I was in school, I would have told you that I probably would prefer the classical method (CIS is doing some GREAT things), but I don't necessarily like that most classical schools require a ridiculous amount of time spent on homework every night. With homeschooling, we can get the lessons and the homework done during the school day so our evenings are freed up for family time and other things.

In the end, after seeing some of my friends teach their kids... some of whom don't even have college degrees in anything... I'd say that any person who is willing to take time to ask questions and who can fumble through and follow directions can definitely homeschool.

My degree is in secondary social studies education, so I kind of consider myself to be on an equal playing field as any other homeschooling parent when it comes to teaching young kids. I just don't think creatively on that level. And the great thing is that I don't have to! I can fumble through and follow directions just like everyone else. I've also just had to keep in mind that it may not necessarily come naturally right away, but I will definitely learn through this experience... which means I won't be starting from scratch if we continue to homeschool our other kids.

Julie said...

Thanks for letting me know what your plan was! What was the book called that you already used with Ladan for reading? Teaching Reading in 100 Lessons? Was that it? Who was the author. I am thinking of getting that for Elijah this year.

Phyllis said...

Julie--The reading lesson book I used with Ladan is called Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons by Engelmann, Haddox, and Bruner. Let me know how it goes for you guys if you decide to use it!

Tonya said...

Hi! Loved your blog! Just wanted to put a plug in for the Spell to Write and Read Program by Wanda Sanseri. We are using it and have learned so much! It's a true phonics program meaning that you learn all the sounds for any given letter or muli-letter combo (phonogram) from the very beginning. For example, the first time they are exposed to the letter "a" they will learn that it says /a/ /A/ /ah/. Many other "phonics" programs only teach the short a sound and then teach the long a at a much later time.

This program is designed for children K-5 but can be used with older ones or those with English as a second language. By the end of the program, the child is spelling at a beginning college level because they really understand how our words work.

No sight words! 70 phonograms and 28 spelling rules. It's amazing!

Here's a couple of links to read more:
http://morningstarlearning.com/SWR_home.html

http://www.swrtraining.com/id27.html

Tonya